What I want to say before we start is that I loved him. I loved him. And he loved me.

There. I can begin.

Write it all down, they tell us in here. Writing is therapy. They had to say that. I haven’t spoken since I got here. I suppose writing’s a bit like confession, isn’t it? Head bent to the desk as behind the grate – bless me, Father, for I have sinned. But today, sitting here covered in shame and regret, I know that nothing I can write will change what happened. All I can hope for is that it will change how I feel about it. I’m not looking for forgiveness. I am beyond forgiveness. I’m looking for understanding. Peace, maybe, maybe not. I’m certainly not holding my breath for a full night’s sleep, a meal I can finish, a packet of pills I can toss into the bin. But I no longer have the heart to pray, so I suppose writing it all down is better than doing nothing. What I don’t know for certain, I will imagine, but what I imagine will be within reason, given everything he told me at the time – everything I believed at the time.

‘I’d always known,’ he used to say. He would say this often. ‘Even before they told me. Even before I could put it into words, I’d always known.’

I would take his hand in mine. His hands were pale, with soft tufts of dark hair on the backs of his long fingers. Pianist’s fingers, I’d call them, though he didn’t play.

‘It’s nothing to be ashamed of,’ I told him. ‘It wasn’t your fault.’

I used to think listening was a privilege – to have another person entrust to you their darkest secrets, their vulnerabilities, the private insanities we all have. There’s an intimacy that comes with that. Love comes with that. It could be that love is not possible without it. I don’t see listening that way any more obviously. But what choice did I have? He came to me; he trusted me – what else could I do? Once he’d started, I saw the momentum gather within him like a blackening cloud. And then, my God, the words fell like rain. Slowly, then faster: a million beaded droplets in the longest, heaviest downpour.

And I took that sodden weight from him with love.

‘It’s OK,’ I told him.

But it was not. It was not OK.

I remember once he told me about how, as a boy, he used to run the hot water into the sink in the bathroom, let the steam cloud the mirror and watch himself disappear.

‘I used to stand back,’ he said, his brow furrowing at the memory. ‘I’d screw my eyes up to see if I could get myself to come into focus.’

Anxious then – though of course he’d sought his own anxiety – he would wipe the wet fog from the mirror with his pyjama sleeve, sigh with relief at the sight: him, himself, Christopher Harris.

‘A normal boy in a normal bathroom,’ he’d say. ‘In a normal semi-detached house in a normal street in a normal seaside town. And Christopher, well, that’s about as normal a name as any, isn’t it? Did I tell you I was named after St Christopher?’

He was so particular about his name. Christopher, not Chris, please, he would correct, in that quiet voice of his, anyone who attempted to abbreviate him. Not that he was the type to make a fuss, but as he always said, Names are important, aren’t they? They tell you who you are.

His hesitant smile, his brown eyes meeting mine. He was looking for himself there, I realise now. He was always looking for himself.

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And then there was the rope.

That was how he described the knot he’d carried in his chest ever since he could remember – a knot that, no matter how often he picked at it, would never loosen. The knot persisted throughout his childhood, into his teens: a tight confusion of endless loops, without beginning without middle without end. Ironic, then, that as a young lad he loved to skip. He never made it into the football team, you see, and his parents weren’t ones for physical exercise for its own sake.

And so, alone on the back patio in the evenings, he would jump over the skipping rope his father had made for him, the wooden handles worn smooth by the long hours’ gripping. At night, he would unscrew those wooden handles, untie the knots within and slide the handles from the cord. In the dull yellow glow of his bedside lamp, he would make the figure of eight, the midshipman’s hitch, the fishermen’s bend – tongue out, eyes flicking every now and then to the pages of his Knots You Need to Know book, a tenth birthday present from his parents. I wonder if he thought about all this as he crossed and slid the braid through his fingers, as he pulled the cord tight. Could he almost hear the step, whip, step, whip, the whoosh of revolutions in the close air of the yard, the refrain he would repeat in breathless, half-swallowed words: salt, mustard, vinegar, pepper, salt, mustard, vinegar…?

I have so many questions and this is one: if it weren’t for the maintenance grant, would Christopher ever have untangled the rope? If it weren’t for the grant, he would never have gone to university in the first place; his parents could never have afforded it. Were it not for the grant, he would not have found the suitcase in the dark loft space at the back of his attic room.

But he did. Hidden behind the smarter cases his family used for holidays, Christopher, being Christopher, took this dilapidated, dusty old thing, not wanting to use the more decent luggage for himself. When he pulled the case towards him, the catch popped. The lid sprang open. Inside, a greyish blanket no more than a yard square and knitted in a cross-hatch design. It smelled strongly of mothballs, of dust. As he gathered it up from the case, a piece of paper flew out. He picked it up and opened it.

He dropped the torch and fell back, fingers sinking into the itchy pink insulation strips that ran between the ceiling joists. The thirteenth of March. The day after his birthday.

In the dark, cramped space, the fallen torch shone a spotlight on the brick wall: cobwebbed, damp, crumbling.

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He was born on 12 March 1959 – in Morecambe, Lancashire, so he had believed. His parents had never told him otherwise. Not that Jack and Margaret Harris were bad people. They were what you’d call traditional, but like all parents, they did their best. Don’t we all? Christopher’s treatment hardly marked him out as in any way special, not at that time. I want doesn’t get. Because I say so. Don’t come back till teatime. Phrases you would hear ten times a day. And like most kids, his backside was no stranger to the palm of his father’s hand, his ears more than accustomed to irritated quips from his harried mother. Stop fidgeting, for goodness’ sake, hold your fork properly, you can’t go to Mass dressed like that.

He was an only child until the new baby came in the winter of 1967. Perry Como on the Dansette, ice on the inside of his bedroom window. Hooked over the Kodak Brownie in the lounge, his father snapped his mother’s belly, huge and round under its patchwork cheesecloth smock.

‘Don’t take any more, Jack,’ she said, shooing him away with her hand. ‘You’ll waste the film.’

Christopher thought she meant to save some for him, perhaps for the Scalextric track he’d built by himself in his room. But she didn’t come to see it, and his dad didn’t bring the camera out again until the baby was born – which happened a week or two later. That night, midnight-ish, he shivered on the bottom stair while from the front bedroom there came a cavernous lowing he could not equate with his mother. He dared not go up to see if she was all right – could not imagine what he would see if he did.

After what seemed like hours, his father came clattering down the stairs in his pyjamas. ‘I have to phone for an ambulance, son.’

From the blue Wedgwood dish on the hall table he dug pennies and ha’pennies, closed his fingers around them before grabbing his overcoat and throwing open the front door. He turned back, raised his forefinger as if in afterthought and said, ‘Wait there and don’t bloody move.’

The door slammed shut. Long minutes passed. Christopher did not bloody move. Then the key, crunching into the Yale. The front door swung open, a blast of cold air, his father’s eyes bloodshot and wild.

‘Right, lad.’ His sandy hair flew in one piece from his balding head like the top of a boiled eggshell. ‘Ambulance’ll be here in a bit.’

The ambulancemen carried his mother downstairs, one at each side of her, as if she were a chair and they were trying to keep the wallpaper from scuffing. They puffed with the effort. She was still mooing, and he thought of the Friesian cows in the field next to last year’s holiday cottage in Ffos-y-ffin. Her face was pink as raspberry jelly, her matted hair darkened to the colour of brown paper, stuck in pointed fronds to her glistening forehead.

‘Mum,’ he called out to her as they carried her into the street. ‘Mummy.’

But she was panting and moaning, and she did not look at him.

The next morning, his mother was not at home. There were no fresh socks, so he put on yesterday’s, and at breakfast his father did not put butter or jam on Christopher’s toast.

‘You’re eight, aren’t you?’ he said, eyeing Christopher’s knife stilled in mid-air. ‘Should know how to put butter on toast by now.’

That afternoon, Mrs Whiteside, the lady from next door, picked him up from school along with her own little boy, whose name he had forgotten by the time he came to tell me all this. She gave them both a jam sandwich and a glass of milk in her back kitchen.

‘Do you know where my mum is?’ he asked her.

‘Your dad’s with her,’ she said, taking his plate before he’d finished his sandwich. ‘Now off you go, the two of you – get out from under my feet while I peel these spuds. I suppose I’ll have to do extra.’

He was playing marbles with the neighbour’s son after tea when the long shadow of his father darkened the rungs of their filthy doormat pitch.

‘A boy.’ His father’s silhouette, so much stockier than the shadow, eclipsed the light. His face was invisible. ‘Do you hear me, Christopher? You’ve a brother now. He’s called Jack.’

‘OK.’ Christopher returned to his game, pressing his knuckle to a cat’s eye the size of a gobstopper, a silver and blue ripple frozen inside its heavy glass. An important shot this. They were playing keepsies.

It would be years before he thought about the fact that his brother’s Christian name was the same as his father’s.

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Louise came a year later. She and Jack Junior were their own unit: Irish twins, his dad called them. Their fair hair and bright, freckled faces did not match Christopher’s own black locks, his pale skin.

‘I was the blank canvas,’ he said to me once. ‘They were the works of art.’

‘No, no,’ I remember replying. ‘Don’t say that. You’re my work of art. We’re all a work of art for someone who loves us.’

But his siblings’ easy way with their mother – the way they climbed onto her lap if she ever sat down, hid under her skirt while she gossiped with the neighbours on the street, laughed when she scolded them – served only to remind him of his own stiff stance, his inability simply to hold, or be held by, another human being.

‘No one is born unable to hug,’ I told him. ‘It can be learnt, and I’ll teach you.’

I thought I could teach him everything. Confidence, that was all he needed, I thought. A sense of his place in the world. But I could not give him that.

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At ten years old, Christopher was moved into the loft, into a room made by his father.

‘Your brother needs his own space,’ his mother said, by way of explanation. ‘He’s gone two.’

Fine by Christopher. Jack Junior was a pain in the neck, a whinger. The sooner they stopped sharing, the better.

The box room became a nursery for Louise, who was getting on for fourteen months by then. Christopher, already taller than his mother by this point, wasn’t far off being taller than his father. He could not straighten up to full height in his new bedroom without banging his head on the eaves, but the floor space was bigger than the one downstairs.

His father built the windows for the loft room, put the electrics in and lined the walls with fresh woodchip, which he painted cream. His mother ran up curtains from fabric she’d found at Lancaster market, made him a valance sheet with what was spare. His parents bought him a new pine wardrobe from MFI on hire purchase.

The trapdoor was left as it was – with a U-shaped handle. Whenever Christopher went up to his room, he would take the long hook from its holder on the landing wall, loop it through the handle on the trapdoor and pull. With a heavy metallic clatter, the stepladder would come shuddering down like a magic staircase summoned from tin clouds. At ten, this made the room feel like a den; later, like a temporary guest room.

And later, when he did start to look at it in that way – that is, with the seed of bitterness he wished were no part of him – he would think about how nothing had ever truly belonged to him. Nothing had really been his. To and from school, he would tread as lightly as he could so as not to wear out the soles of the shoes that would be Jack’s – try not to suck thin the grey cuffs of his school blazer.

‘Try and keep it nice for your brother, can’t you?’ His mother, Margaret, shaking out his father’s work shirts over the kitchen table. ‘We can’t be buying new blazers every five minutes.’

It seemed to Christopher sometimes that his life was spent trying not to ruin anything, trying not to bite his nails, not to put his elbows on the table, not to pull out clumps of his own dark hair. By the time he was twelve, his eyebrows were no more than black tufts where he had plucked out patches along the length. They never grew back, not completely.

And always the knot, always the rope.

I will say this: things were different then. People had different ideas. People went to church every week, went most places on foot, often came home from work to eat at midday. No exception, Christopher walked the half-mile from St Luke’s Primary home for his dinner at 12.15 p.m. sharp: something like boiled potatoes, mince or battered fish, peas, carrots followed by steamed pudding with custard or white sauce. His mother, flushed from battle with the twin tub, muttered: ‘I feel like I’ve been through the ruddy wringer…’ unwrapping her pinny from her thin waist – ‘Don’t have time to be running a restaurant…’ pulling the turban from her forehead – ‘Call that hand washed? Go and get some soap on it now before I give you a thick ear…’ fixing her hair in time for the stomp of his father’s boots on the path.

Five around the table, heads bowed, the smell of carbolic on his praying hands. For what we are about to receive… After dinner, or lunch as they call it now, his father grabbed his tool bag and returned to work. Christopher wandered back to school, while his mother pushed the pram from the butcher’s to the grocer’s and on to the baker’s. There was no rest for the wicked.

In 1972, the black-and-white television was replaced by a colour set. By then he was at Morecambe Grammar. Lemon-curd crust and a glass of milk in hand, he sat cross-legged on the floor after school and watched the Clangers or Blue Peter or Bewitched. Then he would go up to his loft and study to the soundtrack of the week’s Top 40, which he taped without fail every Sunday night on his radio cassette player. Homework complete, he would climb back through the hatch – the clank, clank of those metal steps – and watch the news with his parents.

‘You’ll get square eyes, you will,’ his mother would say, his father muttering behind his paper about the brain-rotting capacities of the idiot box. But then, his father didn’t like books much either.

Christopher never understood what square eyes were, though by the age of fourteen myopia had furred his world like the inside of an old kettle. His mother took him to the optician, and two weeks later, spectacles were pushed onto his face, adjusted around his ears. And there they would stay, in various sizes and subtle variations, for the rest of his life: his world clear now but gated off in dark tortoiseshell.

He worked hard, always. He made no apology for that. Caught the bus to school, stayed for dinner, played British Bulldog sometimes on the tarmac. ‘Rubbish’ at woodwork and art, ‘all right’ at English and history (he excelled, though he would never say it). Loved to read, loved music. The seventies brought decimalisation, all mod cons, though Morecambe still seemed a decade behind, judging by the clips on News from the North. The seventies were happening elsewhere, just as the sixties had, but news of them still came through the television. A tide of change: IRA bombs in London, Margaret Thatcher knocks Edward Heath off the Conservatives’ top spot, a prostitute murdered in Leeds.

Like any sixteen-year-old, Christopher was more concerned with youth club on Friday nights in the church hall, watching but not speaking to girls whose pastel dresses had been replaced by flared trousers and low-cut T-shirts stretched tight, girls who threw back their heads when they laughed, who smoked in dangerous blue clouds; boys with long hair who, unlike Christopher, knew what to say. Sundays at Mass, an altar boy, a chorister, his alto broke, turned baritone. Having no distractions at home above the distant whoop of his siblings downstairs, his schoolwork progressed apace. Three A grades at A level – a place at Leeds University to read history.

‘What do you want to go there for?’ his father asked, sipping tea from his mug in the kitchen. He meant university, not Leeds. He set aside his newspaper, peered down at the results sheet as if it were a secret code, up at Christopher, then back down at the sheet. ‘That a trade, is it, history?’

So, you see, his father might not have let him go to university at all, might have steered him into a steady job doing real work for real money, money he could chip in for rent. University of Life! Christopher might have ended up with an apprenticeship like most of his peers, were it not for the maintenance grant.

He might never have opened that suitcase.

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Christopher picked up the fallen torch, pulled the case from the eaves and into his room. There he dusted it down with an old inside-out vest and into it placed the clean clothes his mother had left folded on his bed along with his books and the new brushed-silver fountain pen she had given him for university. After that, he unscrewed the handles of his skipping rope and tied it around the case to be sure it wouldn’t pop open again. He carried the case downstairs and left it in the hall.

In the kitchen, his mother and father and Jack and Louise sat together around the table. Christopher handed his father the piece of paper. His father took it from him, his expression no more than that of mild enquiry. He pushed his reading glasses onto his nose and studied the letter for no more than a second, his expression changing instantly – nothing anyone would have noticed if they were not watching closely; no more than a clench of his jaw, a flare of his nostrils. He placed his forefinger and thumb to his brow and, handing the letter in silence to his wife, dispatched Jack Junior and Louise upstairs to their rooms.

To Christopher he said, ‘Go and wait in the front parlour.’

Christopher sat on one of the armchairs, firm, almost hard, the raised pattern of the fabric running like Braille beneath his fingertips. His teeth chattered. The front room was cold. He had only ever seen one other person’s front room – his school friend Roger’s, when they’d laid out his grandfather’s body. And here, now, with no corpse to speak of, he felt death in the room just the same. In his chest, the rope tightened.

Long minutes later, his father came in, followed by his mother, who brought a tray with three cups and the teapot, a jug of milk, the sugar bowl, and set it down on the low table, as if the ritual of tea could protect them from the chaos Christopher felt coming.

‘Christopher.’ It was his mother who began, skinny knees pressed together, hands bunched on her fraught lap; his father, beside her on the settee, smoked his pipe in silence.

‘Me and your dad,’ his mother said. ‘That’s to say, we’re your parents, of course we are.’

‘Yes,’ Christopher said, falling towards what she had to say, helpless as a stone pitched down a well.

His mother looked towards his father, who sucked on his pipe and nodded for her to continue. Trusted her with so little usually but now appeared content for her to take charge. Seeing no shift from her husband, no move to help her out, Margaret returned to Christopher, her glance flashing like guilt itself.

Don’t say it, he willed silently. Don’t say what it is you are about to say. Let us drink our tea and say well here we are and shouldn’t we be going and don’t want to miss that train. But they did not drink their tea, and they did not say those things. Instead, his mother said the words that were already travelling up her windpipe, forming themselves on her tongue, which now pressed itself to the floor of her mouth to let in the gulp of air she took to ready herself and say:

‘Christopher, you had another mother and father.’

And like that the rope uncoiled, snaked wildly in the sudden vacuum.

A girl in trouble. This was all they knew. This, and more, he heard through the electric buzz in his ears, a white heat searing the cave of his chest. His parents – familiar strangers who sat in front of him now and looked anywhere but at him – these people had picked up his infant self from a convent on the outskirts of Liverpool. They had brought him home and called him Christopher. Here in their semi-detached house with its back patio and its converted roof space, that baby had grown, had learnt to skip, to read, to not spoil things, to not claim things for his own. And somewhere along the line, the natural child that had been denied them had come after all. He had come, and they had called him Jack.

‘Why didn’t you tell me?’ he asked.

‘You had opportunities here,’ said his mother, pressing on, deaf to him. ‘Dread to think what would’ve happened if we hadn’t taken you. We left a note for her, told her we’d look after you. Yes, truth be told, you were much better off here with us.’

Here, where his black hair had never been mentioned as anything unusual – or indeed as anything at all. He thought now it must have been a subject everyone avoided. His height? No more than a handy attribute when a jar was needed from the top shelf of the pantry.

‘Happen that’s where the brains came from,’ his mother added with a merry laugh that choked on itself and died. ‘Goodness knows they’re not from me. And your being so tall, like, what with us being short and that. We were going to tell you on your birthday, but we didn’t want to upset you, did we, Jack?’ She cast a glance towards his father, but it landed short. ‘We wanted to wait until you were old enough. We thought that were best. But then…’ She brought the lumpen handkerchief from her sleeve and dabbed her eyes. ‘I don’t know. It’s not an easy thing to say, love, and it just seemed to get bigger, and then it was too big. You’re our son, Christopher, and that’s all there is to it.’

How quiet his mother’s voice was, as if the silence in the house were yet one more thing that must not be ruined. Christopher. Even his name had not been his own. Jack Junior had been given his name, the best family crystal; Christopher the lesser glassware: serviceable and of reasonable quality – nothing you could complain about.

‘We’ve told you now, at any rate.’ His father’s pipe had left his mouth but hovered near, just in case. ‘Doesn’t change anything as far as I’m concerned.’

He coughed into the thick roll of his plumber’s fingers, his other hand cupping the bowl of his pipe. He did not take his wife’s hand, though she looked like she might shatter for lack of touch. Deep creases ran across her forehead, her mouth set in a soft rectangle of angst. On the mantelpiece, the carriage clock chimed quarter past the hour. The shiny palm leaves that grew in patterns up the wallpaper seemed to sprout from his father’s head.

Father? The word stopped Christopher’s thoughts dead. But his mother was already standing, brushing at her skirt.

‘Yes, well,’ she said. ‘Happen it’s better to know than not, eh.’

But as he said to me, he’d always known. And this is really what this story is all about.